So tell me, why is this adat shit so important?
Personally, i feel that it’s a burden to me. Seriously.
Is it a MUST:
to have sireh dara?
to have a specific (odd) number for dulang hantaran?
to have DULANG HANTARAN?
to have freaking duit hantaran (which burdens my fiance)?!
to have freaking kompang???
to put on henna?
Is it a NEED to spend so much freaking money on a day event?
I am finding all these wedding thingy a burden. Wait, i shall rephrase that. I FIND ALL THIS ADAT SHIT YANG TAK PERLU A BURDEN TO ME!! YANG MENYUSAH KAN AKU TAK HABES HABES!! MATI KE KALAU TAK IKUT ADAT????!!
Trust me, i am throwing this so called membuang masa dan duit adat shit away after i am married k. My future kiddos won’t suffer the way i am suffering now.